Straight men and me

Not sure what it is about "straight" Married Guys" but they have always hit me up. Throughout the years I have always had more luck picking up a "Straight " guy at a bar or outing than a gay guy at a gay club. Don't know why, just easier and less BS to hook up with a straight married guy.

96% of my friends are straight and married. But every once in a while, seems that one of the husbands will hit on me. Lately it's been through facebook messages or KIK messenger. Starts off random, then always hint or suggest sex.

The latest encounter,  a few weeks back the Atlanta Falcons had a preseason game against the Cincinnati Bengals. I'm a season ticket holder and my cousin had prior plans. So I asked my best friend, if she would mind her husband going to the game with me. She was like YES, get him out of the house.

After a few phone calls he decided to pick me up, drive to the game, etc... Game was ok, he constantly bought me beers. My thoughts he was paying me back for tickets, the sexual side was thinking Hmmm, trying to get me a buzz or are you trying to get a buzz?

Game over. Back to my house, he said thanks a bunch. It was fun, I like trying new things. Mind if I come in, she is not expecting me back home for another hour?

Now granted I have eyeballed him before. Nice solid build, with a Boston accent, big hands, really caring but manly.

We went into my house, grabbed another beer and he sat RIGHT next to me on the couch. Knees touching. Now I have an older sectional, so it's big.  He started talking about how it's good to get away from the wife and kids and do man stuff. Said he likes the way I carry myself, that I really don't ACT gay and kicked his shoes off. (I have heard that line before from guys, so I knew where the conversation was going)

Quick decision time, go for it or back off. I pretty much said I just being myself. Not trying to pretend to be one way or another, no fronts, no closet. And quickly told him how lucky he was to have a good woman. I then grabbed the remote from the other side of the couch and sat down. We chit chatted for a bit, then he went home. Of course that night I replayed how I should have jumped his bones. But I have to have a line somewhere. So I went and posted an ad on Craigslist, and met some random dude for a quickie.

Of course I have picked up married guys before, but being at a bar, bath house, or bookstore is totally different. I'm not friends with the wife. Well he still sends me suggestive text and messages on facebook. I joke back that he couldn't handle me and keep it light hearted and fun.

So my question is how come I have better luck with "Straight - married men" then with gay men?